What type of relationship do you think

[attagirl]

What type of relationship do you think is best for you and why? Are there certain types of people that you have a tendancy to be attracted to and if so then what makes you want those people.

[surfville]

Sometime when you are physically attracted then you could fall inlove and want that person. But for long term relationship you definitely should go for someone you could trust and will love you forever. And should not be that bad looking hehe!

[RushDog]

Swinger-type, open relationships are always good. I haven't tried that yet, but I heard they're alot of fun.

[TaylorHicksRocks]

You had better talk to your wife Rush....Myself I would only settle for a man that is A Christian, kind, considerate, sensitive, and a non abuser who needs abuse in a relationship...

[surfville]

swinger should be fun if i don't love my partner. but not once in my mind that i would let somebody lay a hands on her. And i think it is better to have someone you love in bed than someone you don't know. i tried both, i still like my partner more than any of them.

[Eileenacanadian]

Swinger-type, open relationships are always good. I haven't tried that yet, but I heard they're alot of fun.

It's very risky to swing. A guy I dated confessed that he lost his wife that way. She ran off with another lay, I mean guy. When he told me that I kind of lost interest in him. He was too risky for my idea of a serious relationship. But that's me.

[TaylorHicksRocks]

I have a friend that lost his ex wife that way also and her new man ended up being an abuser..

[Eileenacanadian]

A friend of mine lost his girlfriend that way too.

Also, if you have kids I wouldn't do it. If they ever found out that would be awful.

[TaylorHicksRocks]

I'm not into that just one man for me.....

[surfville]

swinger type is just for those sexually driven creatures! because there are many more productive things to do than having sex with someone and let someone have sex with your love one. Anyway there no wrong in not engaging in that thing and work as a normal person have sex when your wife when you go home or with your girlfriend,

[attagirl]

Well those are all very interesting things that people can base what they are looking for on. But in all honesty how can you tell that a person was or is an abuser without first watching them for a while. I think that there are several things that can change how a person is from the time you first meet them to many years later.

[TaylorHicksRocks]

My husband and I knew each other for 8 months before we were married and he passed away after almost 11 years of marriage he never abused me and we agreed on how our son would be raised......No abuse! I think that is something you just feel about the other person no man has ever hit me...one ex wanted to and raised his hand and I told him if you hit me that will be last time you see my pretty white a$$...I will not stick around for another beating and I think one thing that drove him there was alcohol and my husband did not drink...so we were always calm I didn't drink either.....It makes for a much better relationship I think when alcohol is not involved...where did we meet at a bar lol he was the bartender and I was the cocktail waitress......both of us sober although at the time I was a party girl and did drink he didn't....

[surfville]

Wow such a nice guy i think, well it is pretty much hard to find man like that this days i guess and there well be some but not always like every time you meet someone they do as kind as he is. you might have been missing him,

[TaylorHicksRocks]

I was lucky indeed and I don't think I will ever find that again.....But at least I know what it feels like to be loved and to love in return....The Lord Blessed Me There..