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IdolMe
08-29-2007, 05:44 PM
Ever date someone you met online??? How did it go and where did you first come into contact with them???

RushDog
08-29-2007, 06:53 PM
Ever date someone you met online??? How did it go and where did you first come into contact with them???

I did once. She didn't look like the picture she posted. She was alot heavier, and alot older looking. Needless to say, we didn't have a second date.

TaylorHicksRocks
08-29-2007, 08:00 PM
Yes and he is a very nice guy but tells me that I am dangerous.....we are still good friends!

RushDog
08-30-2007, 07:05 AM
Yes and he is a very nice guy but tells me that I am dangerous.....we are still good friends!

What does he mean by dangerous? Did you tell him you're an axe murderer, or something?

TaylorHicksRocks
08-30-2007, 09:27 AM
What does he mean by dangerous? Did you tell him you're an axe murderer, or something?


Lol No he meant that I was irresistible.....in fact he doesn't want to take the chance he was only looking for a date and I on the other hand do not want a revolving door so we went out one time and he still comes out to my place but only to bring wood for me or to fix my lawnmower....He is a very nice guy but I just want more than a love partner....

Eileenacanadian
08-30-2007, 01:25 PM
I never tried on-line dating but I did that phone dating thing and I had a great time. I had a few friends over for drinks and they started razzing me about trying this phone dating thing so my friend grabbed the phone, having done it herself, and got it all set up for me. I just had to say my hi my name is blah blah blah, call me, LOL! I dated two guys and they were very nice. I went to Hawaii with one and ended it with the other fellow. It was fun while it lasted. Listening to your phone messages was fun. You weed out who you want to talk to and delete the others.

princess amira
09-03-2007, 04:56 AM
Dating is forbidden in my religion, so i never dated before.

attagirl
09-03-2007, 11:31 AM
Wow, so how do you meet people so that you might eventually get married. Or are they arranged marriages?

I have never personally dated anyone I met online. I would possible do it if I met someone I wanted to date. I too think that it can be misleading. If you see a picture and then the person is older or heavier. I know that people will post pictures of them that look the best.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-03-2007, 11:48 AM
I try don't care what a person looks like because it's what's on the inside that is the person....I spent many months getting to know the guy that called me dangerous...;)

Eileenacanadian
09-03-2007, 08:56 PM
Yes, should you meet someone on-line that doesn't necessarily make your toes curl you could develope a good friendship with them. One of the two guys that I met from the telephone dating thing he didn't give me goose bumps but he was nice just to hang out with. I felt very comfortable with him.

sadie
09-04-2007, 01:09 AM
interesting question idolme.........interesting lol
let me think on my answer..........

attagirl
09-05-2007, 10:50 AM
You know though that even if it matters what they are like on the inside, there has to be some sort of initial attraction to the person.

mercury
09-05-2007, 12:46 PM
Well i have not tried that one acctualy as i m already married but ya i would love to do that sometime when i feel so . I cant say more than this as my wife is also working with this forum .

Cymru Am Byth
09-05-2007, 02:16 PM
I dont know I think I would meet someone with as if it were a saturday night out so all the girls and boys were out so if they had been lying you can just treat it as a social event.

magnum
09-05-2007, 11:14 PM
I have made many friends online and I also have two female friends from which one belongs to the same city where I live. We had met only once.

princess amira
09-09-2007, 07:20 AM
Wow, so how do you meet people so that you might eventually get married. Or are they arranged marriages?

how do i meet people...i DONT!!!
And yes they are arranged marriages, but my father asks me if i approve.
My father wont force me to marry someone that i dont want. So, thats pretty much how it works.

Jewel
09-10-2007, 02:02 PM
I have dated somebody online. It went well for about a year, but we just lived too far away from each other to really make it work. It would have been nice, but I am just so much happier right now.

Feisty Kitty
09-12-2007, 02:48 PM
Sos and I met online and we are engaged.

We both went out on lots of dates with people we met online. It is a great way to meet people, esp. people who are as busy as you are. I have all of my single girlfriends doing it now. I was the guinea pig who tested the waters.

There are many creepies out there, but if you are smart, and don't give away too much info, you can have a blast.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-12-2007, 07:11 PM
Well there is hope for me after all....

Feisty Kitty
09-13-2007, 01:55 PM
Well there is hope for me after all....

Totally. You should try eharmony if you want to meet people online. It seems to be the best site for most people who want a relationship, not just a roll in the hay. Check it out.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-13-2007, 02:31 PM
Okay I will......if it doesn't work out with this guy I met on My Space the first one not to talk about sex.....what a relief as if that's all I want!

Somnilocus
09-13-2007, 04:43 PM
Yup, when I was 16. Will be three years in another week. We met in-person.. about a year later? We're engaged now, best friends. :)

TaylorHicksRocks
09-13-2007, 06:33 PM
You should be best friends......it helps the marriage last longer....

Feisty Kitty
09-14-2007, 10:59 AM
Okay I will......if it doesn't work out with this guy I met on My Space the first one not to talk about sex.....what a relief as if that's all I want!

Men on Myspace are generally horrible. Be wary!

Eharmony seems perfect for you. It is Christian based, although anyone may join. You don't just chat with men, but you take personality and combatibility quizzes, then you are matched to like individuals. It takes a lot of the hassle of compatibility struggles out of dating. Plus, you can weed out the nutters before giving them too much info.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-14-2007, 11:02 AM
Men on Myspace are generally horrible. Be wary!

Eharmony seems perfect for you. It is Christian based, although anyone may join. You don't just chat with men, but you take personality and combatibility quizzes, then you are matched to like individuals. It takes a lot of the hassle of compatibility struggles out of dating. Plus, you can weed out the nutters before giving them too much info.

I have found this to be true with the exception of this guy we have been chatting for quite some time and he has yet to even talk about sex...which is what I have come across with all the others...If it doesn't work out I will check out Eharmony...

surfville
09-20-2007, 12:56 PM
I did have meet lots of girls online, and dated most of them when we agreed to see each other and they even became my girlfriends. And some does really gave a good time.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-20-2007, 01:44 PM
I am very leary about meeting anyone I have met online.....however if it feels right then I go for it!!! I did meet a single man at Church and he is very nice I wonder why I didn't notice him until last night...perhaps next week I will get up the courage to talk to him...:p

surfville
09-21-2007, 06:06 AM
Did you meet him in the church or online? but anyway meeting people at personal is different really from online as they say online nobody will know that you are a cat just wondering around a pc. So meeting one really needs caution.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-21-2007, 12:43 PM
At Church and I noticed him Wednesday evening but I have known him for over a year..

attagirl
09-21-2007, 06:18 PM
I have known a few people that have met people online and the effects can be very bad for some people. I would hope that anyone who uses these types of services to meet people are very careful and would make sure they are safe.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-21-2007, 09:24 PM
I know I would never meet them at night and only for coffee until I really got to know them.....

RushDog
09-22-2007, 07:54 AM
I know I would never meet them at night and only for coffee until I really got to know them.....

Boy, you're really narrowing your options there. I think you should go to a bar to meet your Mr. Right. Especially on "Ladies Night".

Home improvement stores are some of the best places to meet women. They're always having to get something fixed, or do some improvements on their house. The Paint section is probably the biggest chick magnet. Women just seem to flock to the paint desk.

Fitness centers are also good places. Especially if you're looking for some real hotties. They're always looking for guidance, and reassurance.
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surfville
09-24-2007, 03:31 AM
Boy, you're really narrowing your options there. I think you should go to a bar to meet your Mr. Right. Especially on "Ladies Night".

Home improvement stores are some of the best places to meet women. They're always having to get something fixed, or do some improvements on their house. The Paint section is probably the biggest chick magnet. Women just seem to flock to the paint desk.

Fitness centers are also good places. Especially if you're looking for some real hotties. They're always looking for guidance, and reassurance.
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I think she is right? don't go out with someone you still don't know much. You'll never know what you git yourself onto when a bad thing or the damage had been done.

RushDog
09-24-2007, 07:20 AM
I think she is right? don't go out with someone you still don't know much. You'll never know what you git yourself onto when a bad thing or the damage had been done.

I was being sarcastic (for a change LOL).

Actually, dating isn't good because you can get purulent sores when you date someone. So, the best thing for you to do is find a nice little warm tub, and you take some ointments and liniments in the tub with you, and you just rub them all over yourself, and then you would be nice dating yourself, and you wouldn't have to worry about anything, because this way you would be all hot and nice dating in the tub.

On a serious note, love usually happens when you're not looking for it. So, it's best not to try to look for somebody, and you'll meet that special someone, when you least expected.

TaylorHicksRocks
09-24-2007, 09:44 AM
That's what I always say Love happens when you are not looking for it and I am not looking in fact most of the time I am very busy helping out at play practice....If love happens it will happen...

surfville
09-25-2007, 04:05 AM
True! love comes and you would not even know it is coming. And by the way rush i like your idea of dating in the tub, but i wouldn't mind someone joins me in for those ointment and liniments..

TaylorHicksRocks
09-25-2007, 10:44 AM
Lol when love comes my way that will happen..