If you are in search of that special someone, you might be wondering where you can go to find him or her? The answer is.. just about anywhere really. No matter where you go, you are capable of meeting a great person. Although I would rather not encourage you to stop looking everywhere you go, here is a list of several places that are the best when searching for the â€œone.â€
A few things to keep in mind before you start making your rounds; you have to keep an open mind and not be uptight about meeting someone. Chances are good that special someone may not come right up to you. You, yes you, are going to have to get out there and engage them. Also, you need to realize that you wonâ€™t be able to meet them sitting in front of the television, so after reading this, get your best outfit on and get out and start looking! So what are these hot spots for finding your perfect romance?
On the Job
Start out with the places you might already frequent, and might possibly overlook. One such place happens to be at your job. Sure people go off and say office romance is a bad idea, and I can understand their position.. BUT there is no good reason you should be narrowing your search when you should be expanding it. Your job is a great place to meet someone for many reasons. Conversation is easy to start, due to the similarities you can convey about your work, your boss, and anything job related.
In the Alter
You may plan on walking down these one day, but before that your church can be a great place to meet someone. The surroundings are calming and everyone is at ease within a church. Conversations are easy to spark up, and you can assume the person has some moral fiber, since they are attending church services regularly.
Step up in Produce, aisle five
The supermarket can be the perfect place to find someone special. Surroundings are casual, and you can spark up a conversation over anything. People canâ€™t get around buying food, so start taking advantage of the time they spend and make your move.
Hit the gym
Besides getting yourself into shape, showing up at the local health club can open up the chance to meet a large amount of single individuals. Try to avoid hitting on people while they are working out, and you may find your self in a different setting very quickly.
Clean your clothes at the Laundromat
A cheap way to get out of your house and in contact with others is by taking your laundry out. People are forced together for a good amount of time, and very open to talking. Do not bring out your stained tighty whiteys, that is a definite no no.
Here comes the bride
Just like the movies seem to center on, wedding day pickups can be a goldmine. The mood is right, the drinks are flowing, and you are sure to have at least one friend in common. Get a thumbs up from the bride and groom and your in.
So often I see people that stay inside all day, besides going to work. It is time you get out and get a hobby. Join a menâ€™s softball league. Take yoga. Whatever it takes to get you out of the house and into a close quarters with other people.
With new technology taking over, it is about time you expand online. People are busier than ever, and the internet is a way to meet people on their own schedule. With plenty of free dating sites to choose from, you can expand you options with every signup.
Get to the Dog Park
This is a normally overlooked hangout for hotties. You have outdoor enthusiasts taking in the weather and sites, in a very casual setting. Dog parks are great because your animal is a conversation starter all on itâ€™s own. Donâ€™t have a dog? Just offer to walk a friends dog, I am sure they wonâ€™t refuse.
Hit the books
Still in school? Time to use that to your advantage. You are constantly forced to interact with other students, and a simple study date in the library can get you involved with other people under comfortable settings. If you are out of school now, donâ€™t worry. Just hang out at the local college library. You will constantly have students and faculty alike walking in and out, and there are plenty of conversation starters to be used.