Are you looking to find out the exact steps to take to turn any first date into a next day tale of your sexual prowess? If you are having trouble closing the deal, it’s about time you get in “the know”. Some people find it to be an impossible task to meet a girl, take her out, and take her home. They can’t get to the end result they are working so very hard for, and it just doesn’t seem to be in the cards. If this is your everyday scenario, follow along and learn the ropes. Be advised, these 7 ways to get her in bed on the first date may cause calls for lost panties, an increase in self esteem and upbeat swagger.

#1 If She is Legal, Bring out the Drinks.

Alcohol can be a mood setter all in itself. Don’t get carried away with it, just a few drinks to lighten the mood and loosen up your date. Conversation seems to flow easier, and you also need to be open to saying the right things.

#2 Talk the Talk

If you want her to be open to suggestion, you have to show that you are taking control and know what you are doing. Talk like you are a worldly man, a confident man, and a man that knows what he wants.

#3 Be Spontaneous

Even if you are the type of person that needs everything planned out, you at least have to make her feel like she is being spontaneous. If everything seems planned, its boring, and the end result is she will plan out how she feels the night should end. When she has time to plan herself, it leaves you to her will. Make everything seem to flow, from the date to the after date drinks at your place. Then onto some sort of games, more drinking, touching, kissing leading to the bedroom and you know the rest.

#4 “Let’s Go Somewhere and Be Alone.”

Don’t be hesitant to throw it out there and be direct. Women sometimes need that little push to do what they already want to. They get nervous too, and letting them know you are up and ready for it can be that added assurance to go with it.

#5 Allude, Allude, Allude.

You have to do it in a funny way, or else you may seem too shy to say it — ie. another lonely night. Ask her if she wants to come up to your place and check out your stamp collection. Note: If you have a stamp collection, this is just a ploy to get her upstairs in a funny way, don’t bore her with your 12 cent Elvis stamp.

#6 Be Prepared

Nothing can kill the mood faster than a missing link in the chain. Sometimes you can lose out by forgetting something small; but things like condoms, showering before going out, breath mints if you know your spitting hot lava, are all things that need to be addressed. Change your sheets if you expect her to get into bed. Clean your place and set it up to match the mood. Have candles ready if you have to take it the extra mile. Invite her to check out how comfortable your bed is, and jump in with her.

#7 Just Go for It.

The night has been going good. You have been playing the whole thing aloof, teased her about little things, and turned the topic sexual. She happily accepts your invitation to come up for a night cap and you sit and talk and kiss and.. The next step is where you have to seal the deal. Make the move to take it to the next step. If you don’t make a move and expect her to, you have lost your man card and are required to hand your balls over.

Lead her by the hand to your bedroom, put on the music, and get ready for a fun night. If she seems hesitant that is fine, hopefully this isn’t her everyday lifestyle and you have kept her at just the right point to get out of her comfort zone. On the other hand, kicks to the balls and/or face are a good sign this might not be the night.

Take cue from these tips and you will soon be the envy of your friends. Remember to put your own twist on everything and take advantage of your skills. With practice, you can have this method down to a science, and no woman is out of your reach.